How to Buy the Perfect Lingerie to Get His Attention
July 8, 2014 by admin
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Marriage is probably the most beautiful thing in everyone’s life. But as it brings with it lots of excitement and fun in the initial phase, there is also the possibility of the “magic” being lost over the years. The intimate moments, the passion and longing might subside as it all gets too “everyday” and mundane. As years go by, the sweet shy bedroom moments can become almost non-existent. The excitement of shopping for, and wearing attractive lingerie, the thrill of wearing it for the first time, and expecting his admiring gazes is almost forgotten by many women! This can lead to both of you getting bored after a while.
Even though it is not the only important thing in married life, it cannot be denied that physical intimacy does play a huge role keeping your bond strong. Did you know that the thing that you might have started to ignore can help you bring back the magic? Yes, we are talking about lingerie- something that most of you probably didn’t give much thought to, after a few years of marriage. Read to know some great tips to bring the lost charm back to your bedroom.
#1. Cover Up Well
Yes, you read that right. Cover up! Choose from multiple layers, like robes, long nighties, lacy night wear with 3-4 pieces. Remember the first few weeks of your marriage? Let him enjoy undressing you bit by bit, item by item. There is some “opening the present” feeling associated with this that we assure you, he will enjoy. While choosing lingerie, go for a stylish balconette bra and a full coverage lacy panty, instead of a barely-there thong. However, if your husband is a big fan of thongs and G-strings, then cover it up with a cute-looking, sheer panty and garter belt in the pretence to hold up stockings.
#2. Go Opaque
Selecting the right fabric is very important. Remember the fact that you want to get back to the “shy bride” stage again, or at least act like one. So, bold skin show in see-through fabrics is a complete no-no. Let his eyes keep searching for more (if you know what we mean!). Opt for more opaque fabrics like flirty silk or satin with lace trimmings.
Choose styles that have lots to tie-up, like laces, ribbons, strings, etc. Nighties with side lace will definitely work best here. The idea is the same- to let him work harder and wait longer to get you.
Go virgin white! Yes, nothing can beat the classic white that represents purity. You can add touches of baby pink or peach to the white for some colour. There is a certain innocence that can be associated with colours like white, peach, pink, sky blue, etc. If you feel that it looks a little bland, you can always add some accessories like a string of pearls or seductive stockings.
#5. Surprise Him!
Well, we agree that you both are extremely comfortable with each other by now, and the word “surprise” can be a little difficult, at least in the bedroom. But, you can always give him something that he never expected you to do! How about dressing up like a white bride or a seductive nurse or even a feline beauty once in a while? The key here is to get creative, and live your fantasy without any boundaries.
Things like these can add an instant freshness to your intimate life, and bring back the charm. There are numerous lingerie options available in the markets these days for you to choose from. Oh, along with your lingerie, don’t forget to set the mood with right lighting, some scented candles and romantic music!
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A newsstand where the world still unfolds as print fades to black
July 8, 2014 by admin
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A red truck pulls into an empty parking lot off Fairfax Avenue just before 6 a.m. René Portillo gets out in a rush and heads to a blue shoe box of a building wearing a message in faded paint: “THE NEW YORK TIMES Expect The World.” To the right, a California Lottery banner proclaims: “Millionaire made here.”
Portillo unbolts two padlocks and flicks on the lights. He rips the plastic tether on a stack of newspapers and begins arranging them on a wire rack. Then he hears footsteps.
“Buenos diiiiiiias,” he says, greeting his first customer with the chirpiness of a morning person, even if he might not be one. The men chitchat in Spanish as Portillo rings up the man’s stack: seven copies of the Los Angeles Times, seven more of the New York Times, three USA Todays, two Orange County Registers and one La Opinión.
The man works for CNN and comes in every weekday to buy papers to take to work. After he leaves, Portillo peels his breakfast banana. Then a customer with a tangled, graying beard and dirt caked on his red cheeks shows up, buys a cold Starbucks mocha for $3 and walks around the shop. He pauses in front of a magazine with Kim Kardashian on the cover and asks her a couple of random questions.
“Et tu, Brute?” he says. “Are you ordering a hamburger again?” He puts his ear next to her picture for a second and shrugs. She didn’t answer, he says as he walks out. Portillo laughs and waves goodbye.
It’s just another day at Centerfold International Newsstand.
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Sure, Portillo says, the Fairfax neighborhood stand has become a lot less international over the years. When his brother, Manuel, bought the place in 2006, it carried dozens of dailies from overseas: the Times of London, Egypt’s Al Ahram, five newspapers from Italy. Now the brothers make half as much money, and their foreign offerings have dwindled to weekly versions of the Guardian and Le Monde and a Russian-language paper printed in New York.
“People have the Internet for anything,” he says. “Now only old people come in — like me. I don’t like the Internet.”
And yet with several out-of-state newspapers and more than 400 magazines to choose from, including four about wristwatches, Centerfold has managed to survive in a city full of shuttered newsstands. Village Center Newsstand in Westwood closed at the end of last month, and the famously all-night World Book and News in Hollywood shut down a month earlier, although it’s since reopened under new ownership, with a slightly smaller selection.
But if business doesn’t turn around soon, Portillo says, Centerfold will probably go the same way. Calvin Naito, who lives near the newsstand and drops in once a week, doesn’t want to hear that kind of talk.
“If this didn’t exist, I would feel incomplete,” he says. “I really feel like I see the world in 30 minutes.”
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Before the midmorning lull, a man in an auto mechanic shirt smudged with yesterday’s grease greets Portillo as “jefe” (“boss”) and pays for a lottery ticket in cash. Half an hour later, a blond twentysomething in beige-colored heels and maroon-framed sunglasses comes in and gathers copies of People, Us Weekly and Star under her left arm.
Behind her in line, a woman in a short sundress purses her lips and snaps a cellphone picture of herself as she waits to buy a stack of the same celebrity-gossip magazines. She pulls an American Express corporate card out of her red Prada wallet, hands it to Portillo, thanks him and leaves.
“Otra PR girl,” he says, explaining in Spanglish that like the previous customer, she works for a public relations firm that represents celebrities in those magazines.
Before long, an elderly man in a yarmulke walks in and buys a cup of coffee and a copy of the L.A. Times — with quarters. Then the guy in the mechanic shirt comes in again.
“Another?” Portillo asks.
The man nods and buys a Powerball lottery ticket and a $3 scratcher.
Another customer pulls up a stool next to Portillo, who’s watching the World Cup on a TV in front of the register. Before long one of the Netherlands’ midfielders sneaks a kick past Australia’s goalie, and the voice of the Univision announcer rumbles through the newsstand: “gooooooolaso, gooooooolaso, gooooooolaso.”
In the back of the store, a man walks between the bodybuilding and interior design sections. After 45 minutes of skimming several magazines, he waits for Portillo to get tied up with another customer and slips out. Portillo laughs and shrugs. He’s used to people treating Centerfold like a library.
It gets quiet for a while, and Portillo cleans the counter with Windex and dusts the rack of Cheetos, peanuts and beef jerky. When he looks up, he sees a man with skinny arms and sunken cheeks walking toward him.
“I haven’t seen you in a long time,” Portillo says, smiling. “How are you, man?”
The customer’s shoulders tense up, and he lets out a long sigh as if deciding whether he has the energy to say it again.
“Yeah, man,” he says, pointing to the tufts of peach fuzz on his otherwise bald head. “I got cancer — multiple myeloma.”
Portillo’s eyes widen and he says he is sorry. The man shrugs and points to the lottery tickets.
“So, yeah,” he says. “I need a winner.”
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By the afternoon, a bit of vice starts creeping into the fluorescent lighted aisles.
There’s the high schooler who buys a lighter and leaves, then returns a few seconds later, clears his throat and asks for a pack of Black Milds. When asked for an ID, he sticks his right hand into the pocket of his sagging jeans and scoffs, feigning exasperation.
“Weird,” he says, slowly and loudly. “I must’ve left it at home.”
And the middle-aged man with a brown ponytail and white tube socks who grabs a pack of Juicy Fruit gum and a cooking magazine before walking quickly into the corner section labeled “No one under 18 YRS OLD ALLOWED.” He runs his left hand over the cover of a magazine called Naughty Neighbors before settling on a DVD with a woman in lingerie on the cover.
Half an hour later, just as Manuel arrives for his shift and relieves René, the man in the mechanic shirt shows up a third time. He buys two more scratchers, pulls a penny from his pocket and scrapes them. They’re both losers. He flips the coin and it lands heads up in his palm. That’s good luck, he says, so he buys one more. He says he’ll scratch it later.