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Can a £1000 wedding from M&S give you the day of your dreams?

June 15, 2014 by  
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Wedding season is upon us. But with the average British affair costing more than £18,000 and more lavish events running into the tens of thousands, getting hitched can be an eye-wateringly expensive affair.

From the dream dress to endless pristine flowers, there seems to be no limit to what we will shell out when there are nuptials in the offing.

But could you save thousands by simply heading to the High Street and buying the whole shebang off-the-peg?

For the first time, Marks Spencer has entered the wedding fray and now offers everything from wedding bouquets to the cake, the big white dress to the bridal lingerie. So, should you organise your big day the MS way — and how much would you save if you did?

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Could M  S cater to all of your wedding needs and save you money? From the £99 bride's dress to the £199 morning suit (both pictured) choosing the high street store could save you thousands. But can they deliver the goods? GEMMA CHAMP finds out

Could M S cater to all of your wedding needs and save you money? From the £99 bride’s dress to the £199 morning suit (both pictured) choosing the high street store could save you thousands. But can they deliver the goods? GEMMA CHAMP finds out

£99 Bride’s dress

With its rich duchesse-satin-style finish and classic draped cut (main picture), this is a great dress — and you don’t have to order it six months in advance, unlike most wedding dresses. It would certainly work for a low-key wedding or a civil ceremony, but dressed up with the right accessories and veil, it could pack a real punch in church, too.

Bridal designer Catharina Eden is seriously impressed with the price. ‘The finish is excellent, with good detailing,’ she says. ‘There’s a good-quality close-fitting lining under a stretch-satin outer layer which stops it from clinging and means it fits beautifully. This is such a simple dress, but it could cost £1,200 in a bridal shop or as much as £2,500 for bespoke. It’s a real bargain.’

And while it might be cheap, it’s a universally flattering shape, gently skimming the hips and hugging the curves without revealing too much. The wide V-neckline gives a hint of decolletage without looking tackily buxom, and the subtle ruching hides any lumps and bumps. It is,  however, a bit short if you want to wear sky-high heels or have always dreamed of a fairytale train.

£199 morning suit

While this suit (right) might not have the perfectly slippery silk twill lining of a Savile Row number, the cut is as classic as you could hope for. A bespoke version on the famous street could cost anything from £1,500 to £5,000. Made of a wool/polyester mix, it’s less likely to crease.

And add the right pocket square and cravat to this one and it could easily pass for a far more expensive suit. Any bride would be delighted to see her groom so finely dressed.

£89 Bridesmaids dress

This delicate blush dress is the perfect summer colour and will work well with most skin tones. And it costs £89

This delicate blush dress is the perfect summer colour and will work well with most skin tones. And it costs £89

The choice of dress for an adult bridesmaid is one of the great dilemmas of a wedding: do you put them in a hideous frock to make the bride look better, or risk going down the Pippa  Middleton route with something a little too flattering? And if you have more than one, how do you make sure they all look good, when they have different figures?

This delicate blush dress could be the answer: a perfect summer colour, it will work well with most skin tones, while the shape will flatter even the hippiest of figures.

The fabric’s sunray pleats skim over any faults, while cleverly  creating slimming contours on the bust, waist and hips, but it remains demure. No chance of rear of the year awards here.

The downside? It’s sleeveless, so does nothing to mitigate the dreaded upper-arm flab. If your bridesmaids fail to banish their bingo wings before your big day you could always opt for a lace shrug — much classier than a stiff bolero jacket — to temper the issue. As this simple gown costs just £89, as opposed to the many hundreds you could pay in a specialist wedding shop, it might be well worth doing just that.

£150 flowers

For £150, MS can provide a bridal bouquet, two bridesmaids bouquets and four button holes

For £150, MS can provide a bridal bouquet, two bridesmaids bouquets and four button holes

MS has long been known for no-nonsense, affordable flowers, but wedding bouquets are a different area. This classy collection costs £150 for a bridal bouquet, two bridesmaid bouquets and four buttonholes.

As the average bride spends £560 on wedding flowers, with designer arrangements running into the thousands, you’re already winning. According to Judith Blacklock,  principal at the Judith Blacklock flower school, the MS arrangement arrived as fresh as a daisy.

Bunches — available to order only online — are delivered within 21 days in cardboard boxes using  modified atmosphere packaging that seals the flowers in airtight bags, using no water, keeping them fresh during transportation by  slowing down their respiration rate.

‘All stems look beautifully  prepared. They are clean, free from thorns and have been carefully arranged. If you squeeze around the bottom of a rose and it feels firm and solid, you’ll know they’re only days from being picked. These were, and I’d wager would last at least a week, although I was disappointed that some of the roses were a little small, not symmetrical and looked to have lost a couple of petals.

‘I was extremely impressed with the button holes though,’ adds Judith. ‘They’d used green stem tape to secure the arrangement and seal the ends and fine wiring to keep everything neat and tight.

‘The ribbons used to secure the bouquets were a bit of a let-down. They were rough cut and too thick to look truly elegant.

Other than that, MS has done well with blooms more than  adequate for a wedding but without the creativity and flair that can be given by a designer florist.’

Birdcage wedding cake

Peggy Porschen, who made Sir Elton John's cake, said MS's offering is both delicious and a great centerpiece

Peggy Porschen, who made Sir Elton John’s cake, said MS’s offering is both delicious and a great centerpiece

 

Peggy Porschen, who has catered for celebrities such as Sir Elton John, says the most important thing is that the cake ‘should taste as delicious as it looks and hold its own as a centre piece’. MS scores on both points.

Peggy says: ‘The sponge is light and moist with a buttery taste, but needs a touch of vanilla. The fruit cake was OK, but I prefer it with more brandy and chunkier fruit. The designs are decent — my only quibble is the finish in some cases was a little clumsy.

‘For a luxury cake, of a similar style to this MS birdcage design, we might charge  anything from £1,000 upwards depending on size and detail.’

There are 16 different MS cake designs to browse online. Made to order, they take up to 21 days to arrive. This design costs £349.

Little ones

A Flower girl's dress isn't cheap at £72 - but it is very special. And for page boys, the whole outfit - including tiny cufflinks - comes to a fantastically well-priced £32

A Flower girl’s dress isn’t cheap at £72 – but it is very special. And for page boys, the whole outfit – including tiny cufflinks – comes to a fantastically well-priced £32

The flower girls and page boys offer endless opportunities for oohs and aahs — second only to the bride, in fact — and these dinky outfits really live up to the billing.

The bridesmaid dress is not cheap at £72, but is very special. Made of real raw silk with a  cooling cotton lining, there are layers of French-seamed tulle, as well as a gathered petticoat for extra volume.

The soft silk pink sash is delightful, too, and any little girl dressed in this will feel like a fairy princess. In bridal shops, flower-girl frocks can cost £200.

It’s all about easy care for  fidgety page boys: a washable waistcoat, a Velcro-on cravat and a 100 per cent cotton shirt with a stiffened wing collar.

The most adorable touch is the tiny knot cufflinks on  the shirt.

At MS, the total is £32. You could be looking at £100 for an equivalent outfit in the bridal market.

Lingerie — and garter

MS is known for its good underwear - and this French lace bridal set is no exception. The bra costs £32.50 and knickers £9.50 - with a garter costing a very reasonable £9.50

MS is known for its good underwear – and this French lace bridal set is no exception. The bra costs £32.50 and knickers £9.50 – with a garter costing a very reasonable £9.50

If there’s one thing you’re guaranteed to find in MS, it’s good underwear, and this bra set is no exception.

The French lace looks extremely fine, and the tidy briefs mean there should be no visible panty line.

The bra is a multiway with a very low front, allowing plenty of options for the neckline, and good padding in the cups — just enough to lift a little. The bra costs £32 and the knickers £9.50.

Also selling for £9.50, the little garter is a lovely affordable extra. If, instead, you splash out on Agent Provocateur’s Abbey bridal collection, you’ll be looking at £235 for the bra and briefs, with a garter costing about £35.

The Verdict

The whole kit and caboodle  costs just £1,041. For that you’ve dressed the bride, groom,  bridesmaids, flower girl and page boy, ordered the bouquet and  buttonholes, chosen MS’s most moreish cake, and you’re still almost £17,000 up on the average bridal party.

Of course, this doesn’t include your venue or catering, but even if you spent right up to the limits on the other aspects of your wedding, you’re still going to be ahead.

Fathers-of-the-bride take note . . .

 


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GK,

Liverpool, United Kingdom,

40 minutes ago

no wonder this website makes so much money. Every ‘news article’ is an advert. I thought you were legally obliged to label them as adverts???

Aurora,

Co Durham, United Kingdom,

1 hour ago

Nice advert for MS… Our wedding cost £1500 and more importantly we saved up for it and paid for it all ourselves. Still happily married five years later; meanwhile my friend who had a stupidly lavish wedding and reception is now onto husband number two…

Leonie Delt,

Norwich, United Kingdom,

1 hour ago

I got married 16 years ago and the license cost £52. That was it. What else do you need?…x

berniebabes,

United Kingdom, United Kingdom,

1 hour ago

My sister had a budget wedding and got her cake from marks n spencers the guests loved it they went back for more. It tasted better than some expensive ones I’ve tried.

RH,

West Midlands, United Kingdom,

2 hours ago

All looks lovely.

Emporers New Clothes,

London, United Kingdom,

2 hours ago

I’ve always said the bigger the wedding the faster and more spectacular the divorcethe divorce. What should matter is BEING MARRIED and BEING TOGETHER, being flashy and wasting money, is just that!

Eureka,

GB,

19 minutes ago

I wholeheartedly agree.

up here,

York, United Kingdom,

2 hours ago

Fathers of the bride? I have yet to meet any girls parents willing to cough up for anything.They assume someone, anyone will take care of their daughters and the finances.Relatives, people I know and the girls of my sons have never had a single £ from their parents for anything. We have paid for cars, rents deposits, you name it.
The girlfriends parents , happy for their daughters to live with a man, jet off abroad with their money.We were invited to my husbands nephews , and the couple were paying for themselves. They asked for money rather than a gift as they were so hard up. His sister and husband , or the brides parents paid nothing.
When the niece married, paid for by the couple themselves it was posh, but we were not invited to that. Says it all really. I’ve told my sons pie and a pint at The Bricklayers Arms will suit us fine! see how the brides family like that!

Mother Knows Best,

Herts, United Kingdom,

1 hour ago

We will pay for our daughter’s wedding as long as she doesn’t want anything stupidly expensive (pie and pint is fine by us!) and as long as she doesn’t already have children and is not already living with her partner when she gets married. What’s the point in paying for a big party to supposedly celebrate a momentous rite of passage, when they’re already married in all but name anyway? If she just wants an excuse for a party, she can pay for it herself! Maybe your relatives felt the same way?

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Elle: Motherhood and marriage make me feel fab and look young at fifty”

June 15, 2014 by  
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Supermodel Elle Macpherson is an example to all those who fear that milestone birthday, the big 5-0.She tells Gabrielle Fagan how her home life and a healthy lifestyle has kept her looking amazing

Elle Macpherson in her supermodel heyday

Elle Macpherson in her supermodel heyday

Elle Macpherson, all six foot of sun-kissed long, lean limbs and a tumbling mane of blonde hair, is earnestly telling an audience of women in Selfridges, London, what it felt like to struggle with a muffin top, fatigue, and finding herself so irritable she shouted at the kids.

Frankly, it’s hard to believe the former supermodel’s ever had a muffin, let alone struggled with the resulting flab of pigging out on them, and it’s even more difficult to believe she’s 50 — she had her milestone birthday in March.

The big difference between Macpherson — once known globally as ‘The Body’ — and the rest of us poor middle-aged mortals who just accept being sleep-starved and stroppy as the norm is that, in true celebrity style, she countered her slump two years ago by creating her own solution, an alkalising greens food supplement.

“I just wasn’t feeling my super self and I’d lost the spark which keeps you feel energised and motivated. My skin was dry, I was gaining weight around my waist, feeling moody, and my joints ached,” confides Macpherson at the launch of her ‘Super Elixir’ in the London store.

“I put it down to ageing but then I thought, I don’t like that feeling whatever the cause and knew things had to change. So I got help with nutrition, threw out the ton of tablets I’d been taking daily, and helped create this brilliant alkalising supplement instead.” Without a hint of irony she describes it as “my birthday present to women”.

Inarguably, she looks amazing, dressed dramatically in a black top and leather skirt, and even though you know she’s genetically blessed, has nutritionally balanced meals delivered daily to her home, and regular massage and acupuncture sessions to keep her tip-top, it’s still tempting to go and buy a ton of the stuff if it means you might, in a tiny way, emulate her.

Also, while she undoubtedly enjoys a luxury lifestyle, which makes you feel as green as her supplement but with envy, in person Australian-born Macpherson emerges as enormously likeable, unassuming, and endearingly open about her happiness in her

recent marriage, motherhood, being a stepmother and dealing with unwelcome ageing.

“Do I look back to how I looked in my twenties? Yeah, just like most women do and I think, ‘Wow, did I really look like that?’ At the time I didn’t realise I was that big a deal and wasn’t so confident even though I pretended to be so cool,” she says with a smile.

“I feel better now than I’ve ever felt because I’m older, wiser and truly believe that being strong, inspired and capable is as important as our body shape. That’s why I truly didn’t have a problem with becoming 50, and I wanted to go into it with grace rather than fighting it. At this age, of course, you have to make more effort and being fit and being healthy from the inside is really important — if things are good on the inside, it shows on the outside. I just think women today want to look good at whatever age and realise it’s pointless chasing after youth.”

Her own youth was certainly charmed due to a fortunate combination of beauty and brains. She modelled from the age of 17, after deferring a university place to study law, and survived all the demands of the often brutal fashion industry as well as high-octane, jet-setting and partying as her success grew through the Eighties.

“I have certainly gone through periods in my life where I haven’t treated myself kindly,” she says drily.

“I grew up young. I’ve done everything, I’m no angel and haven’t led a sheltered life. In a sense I’ve experienced everything, partying with Andy Warhol, going to New York’s Studio 54, and meeting Michael Jackson and Diana Ross.

“I think I survived thanks to the values instilled in me as a child — a strong sense of family, commitment to what I love, self-discipline and a desire to methodically work through problems.”

She adorned the much-coveted cover of Sports Illustrated a record five times, and, in 1986, Time Magazine put her on its cover and dubbed her ‘The Body’.

With characteristic savviness, Macpherson, who’d already set up a business so she could profit from her image rather than simply posing for the benefit of others, dismissed feminists who declared it a demeaning label. “I thought great moniker, brilliant for business, I’ll use that, thanks,” she says firmly.

It’s the name of her hugely successful brand and her lingerie range, Elle Macpherson Intimates, is sold globally. She’s also hosted — and been an executive producer for — fashion reality shows in America and is well-recognised in the UK, which she’s made her home, as a judge on Britain Ireland’s Next Top Model.

She reflects that today’s models are fortunate by comparison with her era. “For a start the world has embraced the fashion industry and it’s not a niche market any more. Also, they don’t have to endure long photoshoots where photographers took reams of film and hundreds of shots in the hope they’d got the ‘magic’ shot. Now with digital photography they can see everything immediately and edit on the spot, so it may only be necessary to take 10 frames,” she says.

That satisfaction from a 30-year career (“My motto is ‘do what you love, and love what you do, so that work is a pleasure not a chore”) is patently eclipsed by her personal happiness.

She has two sons, Flynn (17) and Cy (10), from her nine-year relationship with financier Arpad Busson, and last year wed billionaire, Jeffrey Soffer, a father-of-three.

Although she was married in her twenties to a man 20 years her senior, Gilles Bensimon, a former creative director of Elle magazine, she admits she never thought she would marry again.

“I’ve never put much importance on it, but then the love of my life asked me to marry him and I didn’t hesitate,” she says, beaming as she talks of the romance that broke up a few years after they got together but was rekindled after he narrowly survived a helicopter crash in the Bahamas.

“It was meant to be I think. Our paths have crossed over the last 10 years and friends kept saying, ‘You must meet this guy, you’d really like him’, but I was like, ‘Whatever’ and then we met and it just all clicked. I feel very loved and so lucky to have him, my boys, and to be a stepmum. I think patience, gentleness and celebrating what my stepkids do well, and not trying to replace their mum is key for that role.”

She’s taken time off work to support Flynn while he takes GCSEs and protests that despite those photographs of her immaculately dressed on the school-run that was “just because I was on my way to work in TV. When I’m not working I don’t feel any pressure to look great or anything — that’s not me. I dress to be comfortable just like anyone else”.

Her anti-ageing tip is drinking three litres of water a day, and staying active, she’s a keen skier and off-road cyclist. “I don’t like the word exercise it sounds like a punishment, I prefer to say activity. Just 45 minutes a day is good and it can just be a walk, it doesn’t have to be a gym session.”

But it’s her personal motto which probably reveals most about this woman’s indomitable determination: “I believe that it all works out in the end and if it hasn’t worked out it isn’t the end. It helps me take one day at a time. I have so many ambitions, new ones every day, and it’s just a question of staying fit and healthy so I can get everything done.”

The Super Elixir is available online from welleco.com and in store at Selfridges. A 300g Glass Caddy, £80; 300g refill pouch, £52; 150g refill pouch, £32

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