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Young, sexy and quadriplegic in lacy lingerie

August 4, 2015 by  
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Rachelle lays elegantly across a bed. Her hair is perfectly curled. Her lacy lingerie hugs her body. Her catheter, still source of insecurity for Rachelle, is bravely on display. She is undoubtedly sexy.

People living with disabilities aren’t often seen as sexually desirable. It’s an assumption Rachelle Friedman Chapman knows is flat out wrong. Her proof is these sexy photos of herself.

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Rachelle recently posted images from a boudoir photoshoot shot by Revolution Studios to her social media pages, where they quickly drew attention.

Image: Rachelle Friedman Chapman/Revolution Studios

In 2010, Rachelle was paralyzed from the chest down after a friend playfully pushed her into a pool at her bachelorette party. Her story went viral, leading Rachelle to become an activist for disability rights, an accomplished author and overall advocate for positivity in the face of life-altering events.

But, since her injury, Rachelle has dealt with insecurities. On top of the messages all women deal with when it comes to their appearance, Rachelle faced added criticism because of her disability status. After her injury, she says she was constantly told how “lucky” she was her fiance didn’t leave her. After all, people would say, she obviously couldn’t please him sexually.

It’s one of the biggest myths about disability — that people living with disabilities are not sexually viable. Rachelle was tired of it, so she challenged it. To mark her 5 year anniversary of her injury, she decided to do a boudoir-style photoshoot — not to celebrate her disability, but to celebrate herself.

“I feel beautiful now. I feel sexy…” Rachelle tells Mashable. “When people think of a quadriplegic, they don’t think they can be young, sexy and intimate.”

For Rachelle, those assumptions couldn’t be further from the truth — and her photoshoot dispels those misconceptions. Though this myth-busting was her intent, she also did the shoot to claim the self-confidence she deserves.

“It was for me. It was almost like a coming out for me, like ‘This is who I am, this is what I look like,’” Rachelle says. “But, at the same time, I did want to get a conversation going. It’s taboo in general to talk about sex, but especially when it comes to disability. No one talks about it.

“I just wanted to put an image out there to say I can have a disability and still be sexy.”

Image: Rachelle Friedman Chapman/Revolution Studios

While you may not see her wheelchair in the photos, you will see another marker of Rachelle’s disability — her catheter. She names it one of her biggest insecurities. Yet, it’s stark visibility in the photos is a sign of her self-acceptance.

“I think it was important to put out there what might be considered unsexy…” she says, speaking of the catheter. “I want people to understand that you can still have something about you that is not perfect, but you can still be sexy.”

The response to the photos has mostly been positive, though some detractors claim that Rachelle is sexualizing herself by posing in lingerie. She could not disagree more. Her intentions, she says, are clear.

“No one has an image of someone like me,” she says, speaking of how she appears in the photoshoot. “It doesn’t exist out there.

“I’m not trying to objectify myself. What I’m trying to show people is that this is something that exists. There are people in wheelchairs. There are people with other disabilities. And they are still sexual.”

And though Rachelle did this shoot for herself and to spark a conversation, she also did it for the girl she doesn’t even know. She calls her “The Girl At The Bar.” The girl who is single, in a wheelchair and still sexy.

“Let’s be real: No one thinks someone in our situation can be intimate at all,” she says, comparing her situation to the experience of The Girl At The Bar. “[The Girl At The Bar] isn’t seen as a viable partner because, at the end of the day, intimacy is a part of a relationship. It’s really important that people understand that we can still do that. We still have sexual desires. Though I may feel things differently, I can still give back [sexually]. And so can The Girl At The Bar.”

Image: Rachelle Friedman Chapman/Revolution Studios

To continue the conversation, Rachelle has started #WhatMakesMeSexy. The hashtag is meant to inspire people to “stop knocking themselves down” by sharing what makes them desirable to others and themselves.

As for Rachelle, she wants to make sure you know she is sexy — disability included.

“Though I don’t define myself by my sexuality, it’s a part of me,” she says. “It’s a part of all of us. When you become disabled, you think that you’ve lost that. And, eventually, you realize that you haven’t.”

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David Cameron criticised as Mone gets peerage

August 3, 2015 by  
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DAVID Cameron is facing growing criticism over the expected imminent appointment of a raft of new Conservative peers as a row intensified last night over reports that Glaswegian lingerie tycoon Michelle Mone is to be handed a seat in the House of Lords.

Ms Mone was said to have received news of her seat in the Lords from the Prime Minister himself, who reportedly told her she would be one of his party’s new appointees to the second chamber at Westminster.

It would be great news if Michelle was appointed

Alex Johnstone MSP

The millionaire owner of Ultimo was a leading figure in the anti-independence campaign and has said that one of her “most rewarding” achievements was the help she was able to give Mr Cameron in the run-up to the referendum.

Downing Street refused to deny that Ms Mone would be made a peer as a nominee of the Prime Minister, who is under pressure to back reform of the second chamber in the wake of the resignation of Lord Sewel following drug and prostitution allegations.

Labour, the SNP and Liberal Democrats have criticised Cameron over his plan to create a significant number of new Conservative peers, in a move which will further swell the ranks of the 790-strong unelected chamber. Mone, who is now based south of the Border, has not commented on reports that she will be among the appointments that are expected to be announced in the next few weeks.

The 43-year-old, who is said to be worth £20 million and was awarded an OBE for her contribution to business in 2010, has supported the Conservatives at recent elections.

A source was reported to have said: “Michelle is thrilled and delighted. She proves strong, independent women in business have a vital role to play in our economy. And she will bring something new to the stuffy Lords. It needs shaking up.”

However, the move was criticised by opposition politicians as the Conservatives were attacked for the UK government’s handling of the row over House of Lords reform.

SNP MP Stewart McDonald, who represents the Glasgow South constituency said: “Yes, Michelle Mone is a successful entrepreneur, but to become a national legislator overnight without the fuss of an election is obscene.”’

However, Conservative MSP Alex Johnstone said Mone sitting in the Lords would be a welcome move as he accused critics of the reported appointment of “inverse snobbery”.

He said: “This is typical misogynistic and inverse snobbery from the intellectual left in this country. It would be great news if Michelle Mone was appointed to the Lords as she is someone from a working-class background who has achieved a huge amount in by creating jobs.”

Labour MSP Richard Baker refused to criticise Mone in light of the reports but attacked Cameron’s response to the controversy over the Lords appointees.

He said: “The Tories seem to be refusing to acknowledge that reform of the House of Lords is desperately needed and instead seem determined to just appoint more and more Tory peers.

“There’s clearly a democratic deficit in the House of Lords and just appointing new peers for political advantage shows how out of touch the Tory government is.”

The row came after Lord Bew, the chairman of the Committee on standards in public life, said peers aged 75 or over should lose their daily attendance allowance.

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