Lingerie Picks For Post 50 Ladies (VIDEO)

As the days start to get colder, you’d be forgiven for wanting to heat things up in the bedroom. Sexy lingerie is a tried and true way to do just that. Far from being something only stick-thin, barely 25 Victoria Secret Angels can wear, lingerie is a great way for post 50 women to define their sexiness, said lingerie expert and designer Jada Michaels.

“What’s most important is women need to not compare themselves to other women,” Michaels advised.
“I think you have to bring in the essence of ‘being me is what makes me sexy.’”

The designer ran through the many different types of sexy underthings out there on Mind Your Body TV, and shared the two must-have pieces of lingerie. To find out what they are, watch the video above.

Earlier on Huff/Post50:

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• At A Certain Point In A Relationship, Sex No Longer Matters

  After what may be decades of commitment and teamwork in a marriage, couples often reach a point when they stop viewing sex as a necessity in a relationship now built upon the strong tenets of trust, friendship and love. A lack of sex in a marriage, however, can turn couples into buddies or quasi-roommates and make that special spark even harder to ignite.

• As People Age, They Lose Their Desire To Have Sex

  Despite the effects that hormonal changes can have on the libidos of older couples, rest assured men and women can enjoy sex at any age. It might not be as easy to become aroused in your 50s as it was in your 20s, but you can increase your sexual stimulation with frequent exercise, healthy changes in diet and, yes, those little blue pills. Here’s a tip: the more you have sex, the more you will want to have it.

• A Women Loses Her Ability To Achieve An Orgasm As She Ages

  Though oft repeated, this claim is not necessarily true. By now, you should know what you like and dislike and be able to shed any sexual inhibitions that you may still be holding on to. Sex after 50 is no longer about exploring foreign terrain, it’s about feeling good in your own skin. For these reasons, many women find sex after 50 to be more emotionally and physically satisfying than at any other stage in their lives.

• A Man Loses His Ability To Achieve An Erection As He Ages

  Though diminishing hormone levels can increase the chance of erectile dysfunction in older men, it shouldn’t prevent couples from having healthy, fulfilling sex lives. Apart from Viagra, Cialis and a host of other medical options, men can increase their ability to become aroused in the bedroom through exercise, masturbation and increased foreplay with a partner.

• All Problems In The Bedroom Will Vanish With An Empty Nest

  Many couples tend to sweep problems they have in the bedroom under the rug with the assumption that sex and romance in their marriage will thrive once the kids leave for college. Unfortunately, without curfews and defiant teens to discuss, couples can often find themselves struggling to make conversation with one another. Such disconnect will create further problems in the bedroom. If the state of your union isn’t as strong as you’d like, confront the issues head on and don’t make excuses.

• A Midlife Crisis Is A Marital Death Sentence

  The common narrative goes that a midlife crisis will wreak havoc on the stability and romance of a marriage and may even lead to infidelity and divorce. To combat feelings of boredom and wanderlust, couples should take advantage of the midlife crisis to explore each other sexually in new ways. Incorporate fantasies, toys and roleplaying scenarios in the bedroom to spice things up and turn a midlife crisis into a catalyst for adventure.

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The World According To Tim Green: hiding from Big Brother

If your mobile status is your best protection against fraud, what happens when you want to opt out to buy ladies’ underwear?

This week, I’ll start with a short poem.

I like my bike.

There, done.

Two wheels are just marvellous. But tragically, for the last few days, I have been without my bike because the chain snapped.

I’ve wracked my brains as to why this might have happened and realised it could be something to do with the fact that I use my bike every day – and leave it outside to face the elements every night.

I never clean or service it either.

Maybe that’s it.

Anyhow, I have been forced to get the tube every day. This is pretty horrible as anyone who’s ever used London Underground will know.

But one good thing about the tube is the Oyster payment system – a contactless card that lets you tap in to enter a station. All based on NFC (mmm, here’s an idea – maybe NFC could be embedded in phones… someone should look into that).

So every day I top up my Oyster card using cash at a machine. And every day the machine asks me: why not top up online?

To which my internal (loud and shouty) response is always: WHY WOULD I WANT TO TOP UP ONLINE JUST SO THAT YOU, SCARY LONDON TRANSPORT ALGORITHM, CAN TRACK MY EVERY JOURNEY?

Something inside my impressively muscular frame kicks strongly against this kind of intrusion. Instinctively I just don’t want big institutions to know about me. I don’t have any supermarket loyalty cards for the same reason.

Now, I know this makes me a massive hypocrite, as I earn my living from writing about mobile payment and advertising services that rely on big data to personalise their offerings and thereby make money.

It’s a bit rich of me to swat up on this stuff and then opt out of it in my private life.

Now, I know what you’re saying: you are just a grouchy old fucker, too wary of THE MAN to surrender your details to him. But younger people have different notions of privacy.

That’s all true, of course (especially the bit about me being an old fucker). However, I do think there’s an interesting bigger question here.

Even people with a more open approach to their data will have occasions during which they want to opt out.

Imagine a future in which mobile wallets are ubiquitous, we use them all the time, and each transaction is recorded for our own records and to ensure the provider can improve the security of the account.

What happens if we want to do something discreet like buy drugs or pay for a crack whore? There may come a point at which every prostitute will have a Pay By Square account and cash will no longer be acceptable.

What about buying lingerie for the wife to wear? Or buying lingerie for yourself to wear?

We may wish to keep these transactions off the books, as it were.

How can we opt out? Will providers support an equivalent of ‘private browsing’ on Firefox or Chrome? And if they do, what will be the implications?

There are no simple answers to this. This is because, if the received wisdom is anything to go by, your mobile identity will be integral to the security systems of the future and opting out could compromise them.

The very very clever Dave Birch at Hyperion Consult has come up with the concept of the Psychic ID, for example.

It’s a big idea, but within it is the notion your mobile status is the best possible protection against financial theft because a system that knows where you are, who you are, where you’ve been and what your typical habits are can spot anomalies in real time.

So in the normal course of events, there would be minimal input needed from you to complete a transaction. Maybe a PIN. Maybe nothing at all.

But if you’re abroad or processing a larger amount than normal or making more payments than is typical, the system would spot the anomaly and require more authentication.

It could ask for bank details or even send you a text with a verification code.

I suppose the obvious answer is the quandary is to stick with cash for all your carnal-based purchases or get yourself a secret second phone.

Imagine the illicit thrill of pulling out that alternate device. You could make it really dirty by choosing something exotic and forbidden, like Symbian.

Phwoor.

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